Ravi Bhuthapuri

Coping with loss

My first reactions on hearing that my father had passed away were disbelief and a fleeting thought that perhaps my hearing was faulty. I remember a numbing fog descending on me then and yet at the same time thinking very clearly that Madras had just become a darker place. Knowing for decades that I would […]

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Engage

There are times when we do not wish to talk to someone. It could be that the other person is highly opinionated and disagreeable, with a way of talking that condescends, slights or even dismisses. Or it could be that their words are brusque and crude. Or we may feel that they love the sound

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Thoughtful

Many years ago, when I was a graduate student in Texas, I learned to stretch a dollar. My friends and I helped each other out. Few of us had a car back then, and the ones who did, did not hesitate to chauffeur friends around, sometimes to the local Walmart or to the Schulman’s Movie

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Trust me

When I moved to India from the US back in 2002, I was a little apprehensive. I knew I would land a job fairly quickly – outsourcing of IT work to India was at a record high at the time – but I worried if I would fit in as a leader. Would the people

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Coping

It is pretty clear that we are not going to return to our pre-Covid-19 life. Several families have lost loved ones and have experienced sharp drops in income in these past few months. As we take measure of where we are and steel ourselves for the long arduous road ahead, we need to be mentally

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